What they care about is being confident in themselves and of course, being good in bed. They know their worth and they do not care about the societal pressure of being skinny with abs. Fat gay men radiate confidence and beauty, they are probably the funniest and bubbliest people you will ever meet. However, being skinny gets tiring and it eventually gets boring as compared to fat gay men. Skinny is considered sexy-six-pack abs, toned muscles, lean and slender torso, toned thighs-this is what being sexy is about for the society. The ideal beauty for both men and women, gay or straight, is almost the same.
